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Musings on Japanese and Ryukyu Budo
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International & Global Education
![]() Kindness (優しさ) is often hailed as one of humanity's greatest virtues. Yet, how frequently do we pause to consider its roots? Is our kindness genuinely authentic, or do insecurity and avoidance drive it? Similarly, cruelty (残酷さ) is frequently dismissed as wholly destructive, yet it too often emerges from the same unexamined source. Though seemingly opposites, weak kindness and brutal cruelty can stem from the same place—a reactive, unconscious seeking either approval or dominance. This idea may feel provocative, even shocking, but it forces us to question the very foundations of our actions. Are they deliberate, courageous, and constructive, or do fear and avoidance shape them? To act with authentic kindness or controlled cruelty requires a rare kind of courage: the courage to confront our inner shadows, challenge comforting but false narratives, and embrace a strength rooted in self-mastery. Drawing on both Eastern and Western philosophies, this reflection explores how genuine kindness and purposeful cruelty are intertwined and why both demand an honest dialogue with the self. The Roots of Weak Kindness Modern kindness often appears as a desire to please, avoid conflict, or gain moral approval. However, this type of kindness frequently lacks depth or courage. In teaching, for example, I have hesitated to challenge students rigorously, fearing I might seem too harsh. Yet this reluctance was not kindness; it was avoidance—a failure to confront discomfort for the sake of genuine growth. Similarly, brutal cruelty can manifest in various forms, such as emotional manipulation or physical aggression, all stemming from the same reactive, unexamined self that drives weak kindness. Eastern philosophy offers a striking critique of such superficial kindness. In 禅 (Zen Buddhism), genuine compassion often requires discomfort. Zen practitioners are challenged by 公案 (koans)—paradoxical riddles designed to dismantle illusions. One well-known koan declares, 「仏に会えば、仏を殺せ」 ("If you meet the Buddha on the road, kill him"). While jarring, this statement reminds us that growth demands the destruction of comforting but false attachments, even those we hold most sacred. Similarly, in 儒教 (Confucianism), kindness (仁) is inseparable from justice (義) and propriety (礼). Confucius taught that kindness must be tempered by moral fortitude (道徳的強さ). Acts of kindness that avoid necessary confrontation or shield others from reality are not virtuous—they are irresponsible. Genuine kindness empowers others, even when it requires discomfort. The Armour of Cruelty On the opposite end of the spectrum lies cruelty, which is often a mask for insecurity. Cruelty can manifest as aggression or emotional withdrawal, both rooted in the same reactive, unexamined self that drives weak kindness. While weak kindness placates, cruelty dominates, seeking to project strength where there is none. The samurai concept of 切捨御免 (kiri-sute gomen) offers a disciplined approach to cruelty. Samurai were permitted to strike down an insult to their honour, but this right was bound by responsibility and restraint. Acts of cruelty were deliberate, not impulsive, and only used to uphold societal balance. This principle reminds us that cruelty, when exercised, must be controlled and purposeful. Western philosophy aligns with this perspective. ニーチェ (Nietzsche) critiqued '奴隷道徳' ('slave morality'), a term he used to describe a moral system that values meekness, humility, and compassion, which he believed were born out of a sense of inferiority and resentment. He argued that acts of cruelty or dominance often stem from this resentment or weakness. True strength, he asserted, lies in overcoming these reactions, choosing deliberate action over-reactivity. ユング (Jung) deepened this idea with his concept of the shadow (影)—the darker aspects of our psyche that, if ignored, drive destructive behaviours. Jung believed that mastering the shadow transforms cruelty into purpose and authenticity. From Reactivity to Authenticity Both weak kindness and brutal cruelty have their roots in insecurity and a lack of self-awareness. However, the journey towards authenticity is within our grasp, and it begins with introspection and the courage to confront these impulses. This self-awareness is not a burden, but a powerful tool that can transform our actions and relationships. The teachings of 武道 (budo) offer a framework for this transformation. 武道 is a Japanese term for martial arts, which are not just about physical combat but also about cultivating a disciplined mind and a respectful attitude. A 武道家 (martial artist) trains to harm but acts with restraint and purpose. This balance—of strength and compassion—enables authentic kindness. Kindness in the dojo is not sparing correction but constructing it constructively, ensuring safety and growth. Similarly, cruelty is not indiscriminate aggression but a measured response used only to uphold justice or protection. Cultivating Genuine Kindness To move from reactivity to authenticity, we must engage in rigorous self-examination. While uncomfortable, this process is essential for cultivating actions rooted in integrity.
A Challenge to Reflect There is a saying in 武道: 「庭にいる武士の方が、戦争にいる庭師より良い」 ("It is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war"). This proverb encapsulates the essence of authentic kindness. Genuine kindness is not the absence of strength but the mastery of it. It is not about avoiding discomfort but confronting it with courage and purpose. This confrontation is not a hindrance, but a catalyst for our personal and moral growth. This reflection challenges the prevailing narrative around kindness and cruelty. Both, when rooted in insecurity, fail to serve a higher purpose. Weak kindness enables complacency, while brutal cruelty isolates and destroys. True virtue lies in mastering both, choosing authentic action over-reactive impulse. As you consider your actions, ask yourself:
優しさ (優しさ) は人間の美徳とされますが、根底にある動機を問うことは稀です。本物の優しさは、時に不快感や対立を伴い、真の成長を促します。一方、残酷さ (残酷さ) は不安から生じ、支配や攻撃に表れます。両者の源は未熟な自己であり、その克服には内省と影 (影) の統合が必要です。真の優しさとは、強さと制御から生まれる意図的な選択であり、自己対話を通じてのみ達成されます。 Okinawan and Japanese Budo
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James M. HatchInternational Educator who happens to be passionate about Chito Ryu Karate. Born in Ireland, educated in Canada, matured in Japan Archives
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